Talking or Listening?

First one rolled up, unsaddled and leaned his bike against the rail. He stood alone, gazing across the water to the cliffs towering the park.

A few minutes later, another rider whispered up the path, stopping just short of the one lost in the immenseness of Lake Annecy. He joined in surveying the beauty before them.

I watched from a distance, taking in sights and sounds of a place far from home. The park teemed with people. A large grassy field gave room to soccer lessons. Not far from there, people spent time with their dogs, read papers, or drank coffee. Some accomplished all three. (You’ll see some of these photos in weeks to come as I took lots of pictures on our trip to France.)

The hubbub around me surrendered to the display of a quiet friendship.

What if I told you this week’s image brought to mind a relationship with Jesus? Would that surprise you? Would you have thought that without my prompt?

John 15:15 tells us, “No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.” (English Standard Version)

Look at the image again. If asked to choose, which man would you say represents Jesus in your relationship?

Would He be the one talking? If so, maybe He’s sharing advice or answering a question. Maybe he’s calling you to service, giving you an opportunity to be a part of something bigger than yourself. He could be comforting you by sharing a parable or Scripture that you so desperately need to hear.

Would He be the one listening? Could be He’s taking in a question from you when you don’t know where to turn next. Wouldn’t surprise me if He was letting you express everything on your heart, the good, the bad, and the ugly (excuse the cliché). Even though He knows everything about you, He wants to connect with you.

I hope using this image to visualize how we relate to Jesus doesn’t come across as disrespectful. Of course, part of every Christian’s life is allowing Him to be Lord of our lives. He deserves that role. He’s God.

I also believe God wants us to know that Jesus considers us more than servants. He wants us to understand that Jesus calls us friends. He does all those things the photo brings to mind, but only in the way the creator and saver of souls can do.

Do you have that close relationship with Him? When you need truth, help, or comfort, do you go to Him? When you need to talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly, do you go to Him?

I pray you do. Share your thoughts with me.

6 thoughts on “Talking or Listening?

  1. I love this. I see the image and think of how many times I’m the one talking then hop on my bike and ride away…not thinking he may want to say something to me. Thanks for the gentle, and pictorial, reminder. Well done!

    1. Well said Johnny. That’s a great message for us all. I couldn’t agree more. I do that more often than I like to admit. Thanks for sharing.

  2. Tim this was wonderfully said. So many times I see those “God” moments. Yesterday afternoon I received a note from a friend which was perfect for the feelings of the moment. I believe God gave us family and friends to encourage us in life. Thanks for sharing!

    1. Thanks for commenting Gale. I know exactly what you’re talking about. Sometimes we can schedule those times, like a Home Group meeting or having lunch with a friend and sometimes God schedules them for us. No matter which way they get to us, it’s comforting to know God is looking out for us and providing just what we need when we need it.

  3. Unfortunately, I’m afraid I’m more often the one talking than the one listening…. While it’s important for us to talk to Jesus, it’s even more important for us to listen. As Johnny said above, I’m guilty of talking then hopping on my bike and riding off without waiting to hear what He has to say to me. Thanks for an excellent reminder of what it means to be in relationship with our Lord.

    1. Thanks Terri. Yes, I agree. I’m sure that would be a theme if we took a poll. I appreciate your comment.

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